This understandable requirement, probably a result of US legislation (and perhaps legislation in other jurisdictions?), is at odds with the Raspberry Pi's stated focus on children (hence the "considered harmful" jab).
In the US, the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 makes it very complex to allow children under 13 to participate in social media, because there are so many rules about getting information from children without parental consent. That's why sites like Facebook require a member to be at least 13, though lots of kids violate this by lying about their age.
For a younger child, the parent and child can participate in the forum together, so the parent has access to any communication or advertising directed at the child.
These are my first two books: X Power Tools, a thorough guide to the X Window System (O'Reilly, ISBN 9780596101954) and Fedora Linux: A Complete Guide to Red Hat's Community Distro, a practical hands-on book on Fedora (O'Reilly, ISBN 9780596526825).
Fedora Linux is also available for online reading through Safari and in downloadable PDF format from oreilly.com